When you are shy, you cannot make friends, cannot talk to strangers, cannot look into the eyes of others without blushing, or cannot make your conversation as long as you want. Now the question is how to be confident enough to do all these things. Most people think that if they would be capable enough to make their conversations long, and talk loudly in public, they would pretend to be more confident. Sorry! But this is not the case, to be more confident you have to do something more than that.
You have to believe in your inner strengths; yes your inner strengths can take you there, where you have never imagined yourself to go. You will be surprised by the results, once you have start believing in yourself. It usually happens, when this answer is questioned, that how to be confident , people thinks it’s a long way to go. But no, it’s that simple, only believing in your self can increase your confidence, and surprisingly you will cross the halfway toward your confidence.
Secondly an in important step in being confident is to focus on your success. Your success can lead you to even more successes in your life. This would boost yourself esteem and increase your will power to achieve more in your life. Make it your goal to write at least your one success each day, on a particular page, before sleeping, and daily look at your page, in the morning and absorb that success in your mind. Picture that success with the eye of your mind; make it brighter, more colorful, more joyful and stronger. You will see that you will become success magnet, and be able to attract more opportunities in your life.
Being more expressive is another answer of how to be confident. Once my colleague asked me about the thing how to get your ex back. He was in problem with his spouse, I asked him to writhe things which he thinks are wrong in her spouse. He wrote several things. After that I asked him to write things which are wrong in him, and which are disturbing his whole relationship. He wrote three things. I convinced him to write more, first of all he was reluctant, when I forced him, he started writing, and surprisingly he wrote even more things which were on the other paper on which he had written about his spouse. I showed him, the paper and said, this is the case on how to get your ex back , just go and be enough confident to tell her that you will not do these things again, and ask her to change the things which are creating problems in your relationship. He did that and now he is enough happy with his spouse, and they have married.
So it is easy…. You can get from one level to another by boosting your confidence. You can make more friends, be more expressive, attain more achievements and of course move faster and efficiently toward your goal.